When to introduce a lovey?

This is such a common question I get from parents! Safe sleep is something that is very important to me and not something I take lightly. Safe Sleep recommendations are something I am a stickler for when working with Clients and in my own home. I want to ensure the crib is free of anything that could potentially pose a risk to a child during sleep. I follow Safe Sleep Guidelines outlined by AAP and regularly check for updates and changes to ensure my sources are both credible and current.

I have to admit, the first time my daughter showed interest in bringing one of her small stuffed animals into her crib with her, even though she was over the age of 12 months, I felt a little bit stressed at first. The current AAP guideline for introducing a comfort item, such as a lovey, small blanket or small stuffed animal, into the crib is to wait until after 12 months of age to introduce anything into the crib. Prior to that the recommendation is that it is unsafe for anything to be in the crib with your child.

Here is a timeline breakdown of AAP recommendations of when you are able to add various sleep items to the crib should you choose:

0-12 Months: The only thing in the crib should be a fitted crib sheet. Swaddles (when appropriate) & Sleep Sacks can be used to offer your child warmth and comfort. Avoid adding anything into the crib.

12+ Months: You can introduce a lovey or comfort item to the crib. This comfort item should be small. You may notice your little one becoming quite attached to it and can offer it at both nap time and bedtime. If they have a clear favourite comfort item, you may want to track down a second one.

18+ Months: Introduce a blanket if you like, but I recommend keep your child in a sleep sack (not only do they keep your little one cozy, they also prevent crib climbing!)

24+ Months: Introduce a pillow if you like.

36+ Months: Move your child out of the crib and into a. bigger sleep space!

I know Safe Sleep Practices have changed drastically over the years, but so has the knowledge around how we can help prevent SIDS. There are many stories of a friend of a friend’s child who slept with a blanket from the day they came home from the hospital and are okay, but that doesn’t mean every child who did is. Please take Safe Sleep practices seriously and make it a priority to ensure your baby is set up in a safe sleep environment.